Faith & Fashion: Is Modesty Still Relevant in a Changing Culture?

Let’s be real—modesty is a loaded word. For some, it brings up images of long skirts, judgmental stares, and outdated rules. For others, it sparks curiosity about how faith and personal style can coexist. In a culture where body confidence is celebrated, skin is currency, and “do you” is the gospel, modesty seems like a relic from another time. But is it really?

The truth is, conversations around modesty have evolved—and they should. For too long, modesty was weaponized to shame women, regulate their bodies, and put the entire weight of “purity” on how someone dressed. That’s not biblical—that’s religious legalism wrapped in patriarchy. So the question today isn’t just “Should we be modest?” The deeper, more honest question is, What does biblical modesty look like now—and how do we walk that out in today’s fashion-obsessed world?

Modesty Is More Than Fabric Length

Let’s start here: modesty is about posture before it’s ever about clothing. 1 Timothy 2:9–10 says, “I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God.”

Now, that doesn’t mean jewelry and fashion are sinful—Paul’s point was about priority and heart posture. In a culture that equated status with external display, he was calling believers to lead with substance over style. In today’s terms? Don’t let your outfit do all the talking—let your character be the loudest thing in the room.

So What Does Modesty Look Like in 2025?

Modesty in this generation isn’t about hiding. It’s about honoring—your body, your God, and your message. It’s dressing in a way that says, “I know who I am. I don’t need to reveal everything to prove anything.”

Let’s be real though—modesty isn’t one-size-fits-all. A bodycon dress on one person might look completely different on someone else. What feels modest to you might feel bold to someone else. That’s why conviction and the Holy Spirit matter more than checklists. Romans 14:22 reminds us, “Blessed is the one who does not condemn himself by what he approves.” You have to ask: Is this bringing glory to God—or am I just trying to fit in? Am I wearing this from a place of confidence, or am I craving attention?

Christian Influencers Are Changing the Game

Thankfully, we’re in a season where more and more Christian women are reclaiming fashion and modesty with creativity, confidence and class.

Take Jackie Hill Perry, for example. She rocks streetwear, bold colors, and unique fits while keeping it covered and authentically her. She’s proof that you don’t have to shrink your style to honor your Savior. Another standout is Kaitlin Rodriguez (@themodestmannequin)—she curates faith-based looks that are trendy, feminine, and modest without being matronly.

Then there’s Phylicia Masonheimer, who regularly talks about Christian womanhood without laying down heavy-handed rules. Her modest fashion is elegant and simple—and rooted in theology, not tradition.

These women aren’t just dressing modestly. They’re reframing it. They’re saying, “I can be modern, stylish, and modest because I know who I am in Christ.”

Designers Are Catching On

Modest fashion isn’t just a niche anymore—it’s a movement. Brands like The Fold London, Nisolo, and Wearthy (by Christian influencer Hannah Brencher) are creating beautiful, intentional pieces that speak to women of faith who want to dress well without compromising their convictions.

Even mainstream designers have caught the vibe. At fashion weeks across the globe, “modestwear” is now a category. What was once boxed in as “church clothes” is now on runways and magazine covers—blending purpose with presentation. And this matters, because when women of faith show up in style that reflects their values, they show the world that holiness and fashion aren’t enemies. They’re partners.

My Take: Modesty Is Personal—and Powerful

Personally, I’ve been on all sides of the modesty conversation. I’ve had the churchy phase—long skirts, no makeup, turtlenecks in July. I’ve had the “rebel” phase—showing more skin than necessary just to prove I could. And then came the moment when I asked, Who am I trying to impress?

Now, my modesty isn’t about fear or shame. It’s about identity. I want my clothes to reflect my confidence in Christ, not my need for validation. Some days that’s jeans and a blazer. Other days it’s a floor-length dress with sneakers. But always—it’s intentional. That’s the point.

And honestly? Modesty has become powerful for me. In a world that markets every inch of skin, choosing not to bare it all is rebellious in the best way. It says, “I’m not here for consumption. I’m here on assignment.”

Final Thoughts: Let’s Redefine Modesty, Not Reject It

Modesty isn’t about hiding your beauty. It’s about owning your worth. It’s about knowing that your value doesn’t lie in how much you show—it lies in who you belong to. When you know you’re royalty, you don’t have to prove it with exposure. You prove it with presence.

So yes, modesty is still relevant. But it’s not about rules—it’s about revelation. It’s not about suppressing style—it’s about elevating purpose. It’s not about shame—it’s about shine.

So wear what makes you feel confident and covered. Be bold in your creativity. Dress like you know you’re chosen. Because when faith and fashion walk together, the result is powerful, personal, and unforgettable.

And if anyone tells you modesty isn’t “in” anymore, just smile and keep walking. Royalty doesn’t follow trends. It sets them.

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Love + Light,

Akeelia

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Akeelia Thompson

Akeelia Thompson | Founder & Creative Director, Souled Into Purpose International

Akeelia Thompson, also known as “Your Favourite Creativepreneur,” is the visionary behind Souled Into Purpose International (SIP). As a faith-driven strategist, master life coach, and storyteller, she empowers individuals to discover and live out their God-given purpose. Through the SIP Podcast and upcoming book, Akeelia shares real, faith-filled insights on purpose, resilience, and spiritual growth. With a background in digital strategy and leadership, she merges creativity and calling to build a global community passionate about purpose and impact.

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