Favor Ain’t Fair, But It’s Mine: Understanding Divine Favor and How to Walk in It

Favour

Favor doesn’t make sense and it’s not supposed to. When God places His hand on your life, He’s not looking at what you’ve earned. He’s looking at what He’s ordained. Divine favor is when God opens doors you couldn’t open, positions you in rooms you don’t qualify for and covers you in ways no human could orchestrate. That’s why people say, “Favor ain’t fair.” And they’re right. It’s not. But if God gave it to you, it’s yours. So walk in it.

Divine favor isn’t just a Bible concept. It’s alive and active right now. We see it all through Scripture. One of the clearest examples is Joseph. His life was marked by betrayal, setbacks and delay—but through it all, God’s favor never left him. Even when he was thrown into prison for something he didn’t do, Genesis 39:21 says, “But the Lord was with Joseph and showed him mercy and gave him favor in the sight of the keeper of the prison.” That verse tells us something critical: favor isn’t based on your surroundings. You can be in the middle of a pit and still be favored. You can be in a hard season and still be covered by the hand of God. Favor doesn’t depend on the setting—it depends on the Sender.

That same kind of favor is happening today. Think about someone like Tabitha Brown. She started making food videos on her phone in her car. She didn’t have a massive production team or a big following at first. But when her moment came, it came fast. Within a year, she had brand deals, a best-selling book, a TV show and more. People asked, “How did she blow up like that?” The truth is, it wasn’t just hustle. It was favor. Yes, she put in work. But millions of people work hard. Favor is what caused her voice to be amplified at the right time, to the right people.

Favor accelerates. It doesn’t bypass preparation, but it does override timelines. Look at Viola Davis. She’s been grinding for years—auditioning, acting, waiting. But in due time, favor showed up. She became an EGOT winner—an Emmy, Grammy, Oscar and Tony recipient. She’s not just talented. Plenty of talented people don’t get the platform. But when favor rests on you, it makes a way. Still, let’s be clear about one thing: favor does not mean life will be easy. Sometimes, favor attracts opposition.

Joseph’s brothers hated him because of the favor on his life. David was anointed king, and immediately after, he was hunted by Saul. Even Jesus Himself had divine favor, but still faced rejection, betrayal and death. So if you’ve been favored and still facing pressure, don’t panic. That doesn’t mean God has left you. It might just mean you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be. Favor is often misunderstood. It can look like favoritism from the outside, but it’s really about alignment with God’s plan.

Walking in favor requires a mindset shift. You don’t chase it—you align with it. You stay faithful where you are, even when no one’s watching. That’s where favor finds you—in the small, unseen, mundane things. Joseph didn’t just show up in the palace. He was excellent in every assignment: in Potiphar’s house, in prison and later in Pharaoh’s court. God doesn’t favor laziness or entitlement. He favors stewardship, obedience and faithfulness. Luke 16:10 reminds us that if you can be trusted with little, you can be trusted with much. Don’t despise the season you’re in now. That might be the place where God is watching to see how you handle it before He opens the next door.

One thing we have to confront is this tendency to downplay what God is doing. If you’re walking in favor, don’t call it luck. Don’t make yourself small to make other people feel more comfortable. Don’t apologize for the doors God is opening. You didn’t earn it—but you were chosen for it. Own it. Steward it. Give God glory for it. And understand that your favor has a function. It’s not just about being blessed. It’s about being positioned to bless others. Joseph didn’t get to the palace just so he could flex. He was put there to save nations. Esther didn’t become queen just to look cute in royal robes. She was there to intercede for her people. Your favor isn’t random—it’s strategic. It’s connected to your assignment.

Lastly, remember that favor doesn’t require permission. Some people will be bothered by your glow up. They’ll question how you got “there.” They’ll say you don’t deserve it. They’re right. You don’t. That’s what makes it favor. When God’s hand is on your life, no explanation will ever be enough. So stop explaining. Stop minimizing. And start walking in it.

Favor ain’t fair. But it’s real. It’s powerful. And if God gave it to you—it’s yours.

So claim it. Walk in it. Thank Him for it. And let your life be a witness that when God favors you, nothing and no one can block what He has for you.

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Love + Light,

Akeelia

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Akeelia Thompson

Akeelia Thompson | Founder & Creative Director, Souled Into Purpose International

Akeelia Thompson, also known as “Your Favourite Creativepreneur,” is the visionary behind Souled Into Purpose International (SIP). As a faith-driven strategist, master life coach, and storyteller, she empowers individuals to discover and live out their God-given purpose. Through the SIP Podcast and upcoming book, Akeelia shares real, faith-filled insights on purpose, resilience, and spiritual growth. With a background in digital strategy and leadership, she merges creativity and calling to build a global community passionate about purpose and impact.

“It’s time to get Souled Into Your Purpose.”